Sunday, September 18, 2016

Role of Teacher and Learner: Step Back

My mom and I were just talking about that movie, "The Man Who Knew Infinity."

"Think of all the things he could have accomplished and written down if his mentor wasn't so caught up with helping people appreciate him while he was alive!" I said to her as we folded laundry together.  "His mentor was just so caught up in making people believe him by forcing him to write down proofs that so much was probably lost that Ramajudan could have discovered!"

"He was too caught up in being a teacher," my mom calmly observed.

Ouch.

Teachers, mentors.  Let's take a step back and stop forcing forms when our kids' genius is pouring out.  Time and seasons.  May we follow the promptings of the Holy Ghost and not act out of pride in our position as mentors.

Personal Math Classic: "The Man Who Knew Infinity"

This is an incredible movie for very personal reasons...and just because it is a pure, passionate and truth-filled film.

Several things stuck out to me in this film but I feel I must record some feelings.  I can completely relate to his experience. He received inspiration of truth.  He knew it was true, but he was required to prove it by his mentor. I am not sure this requirement was good.  It did give the rest of the world a pathway into the validity of his theories.  It gave him credibility in his lifetime.  But how many of his theories were lost in the need to prove just one or two of his theories out of the many he had?  How much time was wasted in the mentor-driven routine when there was untapped genius that ended up not having time to be shared?

When I started on my quest to homeschool my youth, I was very idealistic.  I wanted a program, a system that would allow for maximum agency yet allow for enough structure that there was a format that would bring minds together on similar issues so they had common ground to discuss and share and learn and grow together.

I wanted a way to take all the amazing subjects, topics, everything that was possible to learn and wanted to organize it so I could capture everything.  Everything.  All truth brought together in a system that made sense.  Connections.  Application.  Context.  I know that the more context and connection a student can experience with a subject the greater their chance to truly learn.  Connections can be made not only with other knowledge and in context but with the many different ways that we can interact with a subject (the Multiple Intelligence theory).

I started feeling a way to educate, discovering patterns and truths in ways that I saw Ramajudan discover mathematical theories and connections.  I too am finding mathematical patterns and truth in the field of education: I just use words, visuals and ideas to demonstrate the patterns.

The other day, I was playing with my visual of the seven monthly themes and seeking more truths in connections.  Do you see the power of this? We have so much information contained and associated with each of these themes.  To be able to further our understanding between the different themes will help us align our understanding about how all those principles and information can be interchanged and applied.

I understand the young man's frustration in needing to explain and clarify.  When I first did Vanguard, I just did what felt right.  When people would ask why I would do it, I couldn't really explain.  I would just say it felt right.  Over time, through the help of many others, we have discovered ways to communicate the "proofs" behind the theory, but like with Ramajudan, I feel like the truths exist in the forms that I felt inspired about and to find the proofs and explanation have not been easy. In truth, at times I have felt very broken.

But this movie resonates with me on a deep level, helping me understand the importance of the proofs but also the danger of not taking enough time to record all of the vision and the overall truths.  I could feel his frustration and the sacrifice that was made on his part to try and make sure these ideals were not lost with him.

Sigh.  The work is great but the truths are too beautiful to be lost. I feel like Ramadan, with all those beautiful truths in my head and the overwhelming compulsion to record them, to discover them, to teach them and share them.

Incredible movie.  Words cannot capture it.

Thursday, September 15, 2016

Schedule for Year: Part 2 Outline of Sept and Oct

September 2016
PRINCIPLE OF MONTH: Humility Yields Abundant Life and Happiness

Devotionals: "Quest for the Abundant Life" by Monson and Aesop's Fables
WEEK #1) Obedience to Law (from "Quest for the Abundant Life")
LEADERSHIP: Personal Discipline and Leadership studies
Painless Grammar M T W TH F
Read "I am Malala"
Game Simulations: Importance of Rules
Wilderness Survival
Animal Care
Write Personal Creeds for Happiness
Crust skills:Painless Grammar, Math, Latin, Cooking, Swimming, Animal Husbandry

WEEK #2) Respect for Others (from "Quest for the Abundant Life")
GEO-CONQUEST: Geography and Culture
Mom-led:
Overview of Start of Civilizations: Tigris and Euphrates, pg 62-63 and power points
Intro to Maps
Read "I am Malala"
Finish "Herodotus and the Road of History"
Role of War: Study "Gettysburg" in prep for field trip on Thursday (Movie Wed)
Kid projects:
Middle East culture and food
Persians and Modern Muslims
Map studies: know countries and major geographical features and cities of Middle East
Study of Jamestown and York town (History of US books)
Simulations: create your own civilization
Update time-line
Crust skills: Time line, writing, map studies, cooking

WEEK #3) Mastery of Self (from "Quest for the Abundant Life")
EUREKA: Math and Science
Cover how to make S.M.A.R.T. Goals (see BSA program)
Read "String, Straightedge, and Shadow" and do examples with them
Read 1st story in "Mathematicians are People, Too" Vol I and do math experiments
Talk about the power of symbols and tools
Start "In The Beginning" by Wile general science text: light
Start: "History of Science"by Wile in reading
Do activities in "Sharing Nature with Children" in hand's on field trips
Van games while driving to Jamestown and Yorktown
Optical Picture Puzzles book
Measurements: "The Librarian Who Measured the Earth" and do hand's on measuring with little ones, conversion between units for older ones

WEEK #4) Joy of Service (from ""Quest for the Abundant Life")
IMAGINATIVE ARTS: Literature, Art, Music
Make Mosiacs and study other Persian/Middle East Art
Picture Study of Adam and Eve and ancient middle east art
Read "The Choice" by O.G. Mandino
Catch up for rest of the month! Watch "Lagaan"
Spelling Bee
October 2016
PRINCIPLE OF MONTH:
Freedom Requires Courage

Devotionals
WEEK #1 LEADERSHIP: People of Courage: what does it take to keep us free?
Painless Grammar M T W TH F
Read "The Gorgon's Head" and "Hypatia: Woman of Courage"
Moses and Ancient Israel
Abraham and Isaac
Writing assignment about what we learned from the leaders of that week
Crust skills:Painless Grammar, Math, Latin, Cooking

WEEK #2 GEO-CONQUEST: Geography and Culture
Mom-led:
Early Chinese rulers, wars and culture
Intro to Maps of Asia and points of interest
Buddhism and Confuscianism
Yin-Yang
Read Chinese myths

Kid projects:
Asian/Chinese culture and food
Art or Prezis
Map studies: know countries and major geographical features and cities of Asia
Simulations
Update time-line
Crust skills: Time line, writing, map studies, cooking

WEEK #3) EUREKA: Math and Science
Chess: ancient game with much to teach us!
Watch new Uganda chess champion movie by Disney and discuss
Intro to Logic and Euclid
Abacus: how to use it and practice!
Study water and air from "In the Beginning" by Wilke (?)
Chinese animals: prezi or presentation?
Gunpowder: history, chemistry and uses
Chemistry: read "Mystery of the Periodic Table" Ch 1-3

WEEK #4) IMAGINATIVE ARTS: Literature, Art and Music
Study Chinese music, art and poetry with projects and immersion
Read "The Single Shard"
Catch up for rest of the month!
Spelling Bee
Practice Calligraphy

Origami

Schedule for Year: Part 1 Basics

Living in New York, I actually have to document and validate what is in my brain. I will hurry and post this as is as I listen to my three year old pounding nails into hopefully the board he is supposed to (with baby brother looking admiringly on), older kids packing upstairs and take a deep breath before almost a month of awesome historical field trips and visitors!!

(Tomorrow Gettysburg and next week Jamestown, Yorktown and Williamsburg!!)

I have also updated our daily schedule to more accurately reflect our current schedule.

September 13, 2016

Dear Medina District support team for homeschoolers,

Statement of Intent: I intend to homeschool _________ Biesinger for the 2016-2017 year. They will be in _____ grade. We will turn in quarterly progress reports and test them at the end of the year.
I will submit reports at the end of October, the end of December, the end of March and the end of the year in June, along with testing in June. Thanks for all you have done to make our experience in New York a success so far!

Hours of Education:
As for the number of hours that we homeschool our children, that is difficult to measure. They get at least as much learning time in as any child does in school and perhaps more, when one considers the “down time” that happens as teachers address behavioral issues or the repetition of instruction necessary when teaching 20-30 students. What I can tell you is what we don't do. We don't have electronics (video games/computer games) at all in our home. The limited number of programs we watch during the week all have educational purpose. Truly, my children are being educated almost constantly when one looks the many ways a child can be educated:
--doing chores
--personal reading of quality literature (my kids don't read “fluff” books like “Captain Underpants” :).)
--writing to record thoughts or when accounting for the learning done in a day
--service rendered in the community
--family sports activities
--nature study
--moral education through daily family devotionals and scripture study
--anger management and socialization through play
--drawing
--playing games: custom skill (depending upon the game: i.e.Monopoly—math, economics; Scrabble: spelling, etc.), sportsmanship, communication, perseverence, how to lose, strategy
--cooking
--sewing
--exposure to quality books through parent-led family reading times twice daily (books like “Don Quixote,” “I am Malala,” and “Tom Sawyer”)
--painting
--meal-time conversations together about what we have learned, world events (like 9/11) or concerns
--home improvement projects
--music lessons for sign language, piano and choirs
--self-discipline through accountability and self-directed studies and planning
--field trips and preparation for those trips (Gettysburg, National Zoo and Smithsonian, Williamsburg)
--discussion of world events as they come up in a home with parents who love learning
--reading done aloud on the way to and from church events and field trips, not to mention the quizzing initiated by my husband, road games developed, crisis management and patience and resilience learned with siblings in close quarters

Truly, in light of the fact that we carry on our learning schedule through the summer with slight variations (more field trips, swimming lessons, cultural events like Shakespeare plays in the park), you can see that they are educated almost year round. To try and compartmentalize the education into bite-size, measureable packets would be extremely difficult as you can see. I can only assure you that they are exceeding the required about of study time for their grade level.
Material Covered: I would ask you to indulge me for a moment as I try to briefly illustrate my approach to educating my children.

Weekly Accountability:
#1 Weekly charts
I will include a sample page of ______'s weekly chart, which covers material like math. Be assured that I am mindful of where my child is at and am always seeking improvement. Some children learn skills like mathematics at different speeds and I believe that a child that has confidence in their learning will learn faster than one is constantly being pushed into the ZPD, or the zone of proximal development.* (See end notes)
However, I believe that daily exposure and immersion in math skills and logical processing is important. We use the following:
--Proficiency level (not grade level) Saxon math books
--”Hand's On Math” curriculum
--dice and other math games
--flash cards and hand's on practical application of mathematical skills: i.e. measuring and cooking
Similarly, I require my children to do writing, piano and many other worthwhile tasks daily. These must be fulfilled before they get any privileges on the weekend that involve the media or friends.

#2 Monthly Outlines
I have monthly outlines that follow a theme that will strengthen both the “core” and the “crust”** of my children, as well as expose them to the four “lenses of learning.” (See article and chart on attached sheet.) As you can see from the chart and my lesson plans for the upcoming two months, my children get a scope of learning that will serve them well. I don't only want to fill their minds with knowledge. I want to teach them how to process it and apply it to the world at large in a meaningful way.

#3 Self-directed Weekly Goals
I am a firm believer in the efficacy of self-directed education: a self-directed learner is a life-long learner. I have weekly interviews with my older children assessing their previous week's goals and then being present with them as they set goals for the upcoming week. Do they always reach their all of their goals? No. However, they learn how to fail and try again, a powerful lesson. And they do try again and improve.

I will attach a few sample sheets of these “Student Accountability Reports” (or SARs) and have the record of every SAR in a folder right next to their weekly charts. At the end of the quarter, I will review them and submit a briefer report but these reports and charts are available upon request.

I love to learn with my children and am looking forward to a great year! Thanks for your support.

*”The zone of proximal development, often abbreviated as ZPD, is the difference between what a learner can do without help and what he or she can do with help.[1] It is a concept introduced, yet not fully developed, by Soviet psychologist Lev Vygotsky (1896–1934)
Various investigations, using different approaches and research frameworks have proved collaborative learning to be effective in many kinds of settings and contexts.[17] Teachers should assign tasks that students cannot do on their own, but which they can do with assistance; they should provide just enough assistance so that students learn to complete the tasks independently and then provide an environment that enables students to do harder tasks than would otherwise be possible.[14] In the context of adults, peers should challenge each other in order to support collaboration and success.” (Wikipedia, “ZPD definition).
Many educators feel that to push children into the ZPD at too early of an age too regularly will kill their love of learning and confidence. Puberty is an excellent time to push into the ZPD, when a child's confidence is built up from their years in what my co-educators call “the love of learning” phase.

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**“The Core and Crust of Leadership,” by Timothy Clarke
Two weeks ago, the charismatic German politician and heir-apparent to Chancellor Angela Merkel, Karl-Theodor zu Guttenberg, resigned as minister of defense. It had come to light that his doctoral dissertation was adorned with more than 300 instances of plagiarism. A spectacular leadership failure to be sure, but why?
A simple way to think about leadership is to divide it into two parts — a core and a crust. The distinction gives us a clearer eye. The core represents those things that are indispensable, while the crust those things that are important. What then goes in the core? And what goes in the crust?
The core of leadership is character. It represents the essence of who you are and what you stand for. It has nothing to do with Churchillian eloquence, a puckish sense of humor or grasp of strategy. The crust of leadership is all of that — all of your knowledge, experience and skills. Both parts are important, but not equally important.
Viewed through the core/crust lens, leaders congregate around three main types:
1. Strong core + strong crust = great leader. If you are strong in both areas, you have the powerful combination of character and competence. This is where greatness lies, because you have the capacity and the intent to help others and accomplish meaningful goals.
2. Strong core + weak crust = nice leader. A nice leader is a person of character who lacks competence. Leaders in this category work hard, care and have integrity, but their lack of competence holds them back from making a fuller contribution. We trust them personally, but not professionally.
3. Weak core + strong crust = dangerous leader. A dangerous leader is a person who combines great intelligence and skill with flawed character. When a leader has significant capacity and directs that capacity toward destructive goals, people suffer.
In the annals of history, great leaders become famous, dangerous leaders become infamous and nice leaders become invisible. Thus, we remember the Lincolns and the Stalins. Everyone else is lost in obscurity.
Now let me ask two important questions: First, where do we spend most of our time — on the core or the crust? Need I even ask? Most individuals and organizations spend no less than 95 percent of their development efforts and resources on the crust. We obsess on growing and deepening the crust. We want our leaders to be clever.
Now the second question: Where do the biggest leadership failures come from? The core, of course. The erstwhile German defense minister is Exhibit A. It’s always a collapse of the core.
The essence of leadership is the process of influencing volunteers to accomplish good things. Leadership begins with the core, with our intent to lead. The first question of leadership is simple: Why do you want to lead? Isn’t it interesting that we rarely ask such a question when we hire or promote our leaders. And yet the question reveals the motivational basis of a person’s desire to lead.
Let me re-emphasize that people are volunteers. This acknowledgment reminds us of a couple of things. First, leaders are no better than their followers. Second, performance is based on discretionary contribution. The history of leadership is largely a chronicle of people being muscled, coerced and pressed into service. Actually, this isn’t leadership at all, but we’ve been calling it that for centuries and now it’s catching up with us. Increasingly, we see a very interesting trend in organizations. In a turbulent, globalizing world, talented people are less willing to put up with core-less leaders, regardless of how clever they are. Next-Gen workers, in particular, seem to have a highly developed sense of smell for dangerous leaders. If you don’t pass the smell test, they will resist your leadership or simply leave. The personal risk is just too high.
There are no shortcuts to becoming a great leader. It takes hard work, humility and self-discipline. Meanwhile, our society is in desperate need of people with that all-too-rare combination — strong core and strong crust. Both will be tested, but the toughest tests will be tests of the core. And they certainly will come!
Timothy R. Clark, Ph.D., is an author, international management consultant, former two-time CEO, Fulbright Scholar at Oxford University and Academic all-American football player at BYU. His latest two books are "The Leadership Test" and "Epic Change." E-mail: trclark@trclarkpartners.com

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From “Teach the Child”:
There are four “lenses” that each child should have to properly view the world. Without these lenses the “student is handicapped in his ability to see things as they are.” Morality is the hub in which these things function to help distinguish between right and wrong.
    1. Math (for the ability to induce truth through logic and reasoning - inducing truth)
    2. Science (for the ability to deduce truth through observation)
    3. Social sciences (for the ability to see truth by widening perspective to see norms and values)
    4. Arts and language (the ability to judge truth through beauty/value).

From Introduction to "The Gateway to the Great Books":
There are 4 colors “representing 4 aspects of ourselves as we use words to communicate what we know, think, feel or intend”:
1. Yellow - works of imagination (arts and language)
2. Blue - biographies and histories (humane letters or social studies)
3. Green - mathematics and natural sciences
4. Red - philosophy or theology (morality)

You can see from the visual below how I segregate subjects and skills into different areas in the lenses and identify them as crust skills or a core lessons. Some activities can serve as both: reading a book can strengthen the core of someone's compassion for a culture as well as teach them crust knowledge of geographical or cultural facts. However, the chart gives you a general idea:

Here I inserted the "Core and Crust" visual of how I incorporate the Core and Crust concept with the lenses.  Check out this video to describe it.

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YEAR-LONG TOPICS AND SOURCES
Time Period: Ancient History
Pre-history through Fall of the Roman Empire and Early Exploration

Monthly Break-down:
Month-long activities:
Theme-based devotionals, memorization, and family reading
Spelling lists derived from reading material and project studies, tested 2xs/month
Latin (“Getting Started With Latin”)-1-3 daily exercises
Physical fitness: basketball 2-3 days a week, personal fitness programs (running, biking, swimming) 2-3 times a week
Authors in the Attic”: free writing group that meets once a week where creative writing submissions are shared (all ages)

The following activities are ongoing throughout the year and are in addition to the monthly outlines
Week 1: Leadership Academy
Painless Grammar”
Young Men Group led by Dad: based upon “Man-votionals” and “The Art of Manliness” for 11 and older
-readings and discussion
-outdoor adventures
-leadership and planning experience
-personal grooming
Young Ladies Group led by Mom: based upon “Beautiful Girlhood” for 10 and older
-cultural activities
-readings and discussion
-manners and etiquette
-personal grooming
-outdoor activities

Week 2: Geo-conquest
Map studies and testing
Cooking and culture (field trips where possible)
Learn points of interest in continent/area of the month (changes monthly)
How to do Prezi's and Powerpoints: present one during this week
Book of Rule”: study of governments of region

Week 3: Eureka!
Study symbols and tools of science and math through various awesome books like “Go Figure!,” “The Math Book,” “Mandala,” “Math Games and Number Tricks,”etc.
Focus on one or more examples from “Mathematicians are People Too” and do exercises
Sharing Nature with Children” activities
Euclid: do geometric proofs
Cover “The Art of Argument” one day

Week 4: Imaginative Arts
Art projects and lessons
Plays: our goal is to do at least one online production
On Stage” games: acting practice
Play on Words” and “Common Phrases” for cultural literacy and fun with words!
Langston Hughes” and other poetry


Thursday, September 8, 2016

Ultimate Purpose

I just can't escape this idea and the power of it.  My purpose for my homeschooling emerged gradually over the years after reading the books and articles recommended on my Vanguard blog and during my time in Vanguard.  To develop the core and crust of my kids in adequate proportions so that they will be good leaders: leaders of themselves and leaders in their community.

Over the years, I have created (mostly) and participated in (seldom) groups and classes that served to do one or the other of my children.  I have been pondering anew lately why I created Vanguard and organized the principles and tools in it: because it serves my purpose.

And what is my purpose?  To create morally strong individuals who are convinced that God can and desires to use them for His purpose, who can think and make connections and act on those connections.

It has never been to get them into college.

As I see Tova and Kel emerge from my home, I reflect on that process. I see in myself how I have been torn over the years with side-ways comparison: Is this class or method really the right one for my child? I would ask again and again.  Again and again, those classes or methods whose purpose was to get a child into college by passing the tests never lasted long.

As I get ready submit my perspectus for this year for my New York homeschooling supervisors, I believe that I am going to give them a brief overview of the Vanguard method, the concept of the core and crust of leadership and see what happens.  I see droves of people emerging from this same system unable to move forward, find purpose and direction, or function socially...or even take care of themselves.  Is this my purpose?  To mirror this system?

"Norms and Nobility" is a powerful read. I have never read more than the first three sections (intro, prologue and chapter 1, I believe) with excerpts of other parts but hte power of the truths and vision of the education in those pages is not found elsewhere in our homeschooling community that I have found.

I see in my children the ability to take information in, compartmentalize it and make connections at younger and younger ages as we have our monthly themes, read good books, have regular devotionals, and discuss our core and crust and the vision of what we can become.  You cannot be confronted with a vision of who you want to become and be content.

As I am doing the Seminary Teacher Training for the year, in the book it said that the studying and understanding of doctrine and true principles is the greatest motivator to learn and make good decisions.  True principles.  Those true answers we are seeking to the 7 great questions we ask in Vanguard, our 7 monthly areas of impact. (I believe that the 9 Doctrines of the LDS church are God's answers to those questions, but how wonderful to explore more perspectives.)

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Let's Play Some Games!: A look at our current schedule

For about a year, the Spirit (my gut, my intuition...whatever you want to call it) has been telling me to play more games.  And I have been busy doing all those school classes and house work and clubs that I was determined to finish first so I could "get to the fun stuff."

Image result for image of imperial assaultWell, I have been finally playing games and passed a personal hurdle today: I played Imperial Assault with my 15 year old! Imagine Axis and Allies...in Klingon.
The first time I played with him it was 10 pm and my mom and I had no idea what was going on.  Drew won, we laughed a lot, and that was that.

This time, Drew has been prepping me with a request to conduct a full out Imperial Invasion against him.  Whew.  First I had to read this game instruction book that might have well have been written in Klingon considering how little I understood what it was taking about.

"I am just going to have to play some practice battles first," I told him at one point.  Part of me wondered why I was doing it at all. I mean, it wasn't going to change the world and I didn't even see really how it was going to do more good than, well, just take up time. 

Image result for image of kids concentrating on gameAs I pondered about purpose, it struck me that there were three powerful things that could result from this game:
-quality time with Drew doing something he is passionate about (bonding with 15 year old boys is important)
-I could learn strategy, or (more likely)
-I could develop better sportsmanship and learn how to lose well.

This last thing is something we have all been struggling with lately, acquiescing gallantly in the face of defeat in a game or in a conversation or in any situation.  There is a deep lesson to be learned, the art of sportsmanship, and how well it will serve my children in the years to come.

So for now, I can model it gracefully, right :)?  Or at least somewhat, with a little bit of feisty-ness thrown in for good measure.

My brain is fried.  The game is finished...and I even had fun. If this is the priority for homeschooling right now, I think I better just buckle down and enjoy it :).

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A fantastic game with all sorts of learning that happens is Cash Flow. It is expensive if you pay full price but can be found for much less.  Math, economics, long-term investing or even patience and the frivolity of whim spending...all these are part of this game.  And you will learn a bunch as you play!

Combine games, devotionals, a few crust classes (ours this week are Latin and Grammar) and reading time and discussion and it is amazing how much they learn!  Have accountability each night and planning as part of their basics each morning...then have fun learning and sharing your own studies!  So fun!

Oh, and don't forget to give them time and eliminate distractions...the only videos we have watched have been devotional ones and ones that we are doing for our "happiness" theme I mentioned in a previous post.   At least this is what has worked for us.  The key is following what is right for your family and trusting it no matter how different it looks :).  You can do it!

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

The Power of Purpose

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I have recently viewed a video on the power of purpose.  When our purpose is aligned with good and true principles and motives...that is when awesomeness happens.  Image result for image of kids and parents playing games
Just think about it:
--what is my ultimate purpose in playing games with my children?  It can be many things: to help them learn; to enjoy time together; to win; to assert authority; to kill time. If my purpose is one of the first two(service-based), it will guide my actions to create a fantastic environment. If it is any of the latter (which are all pride-based), contention will arise.

Image result for image of kids doing jobs--what is my ultimate purpose in having jobs done in the morning?  Let's look at superficial purposes in this case: to get the house clean and to teach my children to work.  Okay, but why?  Why do we want the house clean?  Why do we want to teach our children to work?  First one: well, we want it clean so we can learn better together, so things don't get ruined, so we have a feeling of peace in our home...so I'll choose the last one as the higher purpose.  Okay, why do I want a feeling of peace in my home?  Well, the main reason why is because then we are more free to feel the Spirit direct us.

Now, let's look at the power of that godly purpose: to feel the Spirit.  If that is the purpose of my cleaning and I recognize that purpose, I will move forward in a manner that is more true to that purpose: I won't yell at my children to get it done.  The end is not a clean house, remember? It is to feel the Spirit.
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--what is my ultimate purpose in teaching children math?  To pass the ACT, to prepare for higher levels of learning, to learn to reason, to discern truth and patterns.  Well, it may be different for each one of us.  For me, it is the last.  Why do I want them to discern truth and patterns?  So they can be prepared to discern truth and patterns in all their learning.  Well, if that is my ultimate purpose in teaching math, is their daily math "requirements" going to look different?

Now, let's take this one step deeper: what if the students also knows the ultimate purpose and that it is tied to their well-being?  Not in a manipulative, authoritative way, but in a way where they truly know that we love them and we are seeking their best interest.  Then invite them to participate.

Check out the second story in "Mathematicians are People, Too": "The teacher who paid his student," the story of Pythagoras.  What price are we willing to pay for our ultimate purpose?  It might just change the way that we approach our children with education plans and goals.

And it will look different in each home.  Enjoy the freedom of following a good and true and personalized purpose in your home!